Pam Leo's book, Connection Parenting, begins a bit differently from many other books. Individuals new to the subject of gentle parenting or consensual living will be happy to read that parents are doing the best they can with the information, resources, and support they have at any given time. While you may feel regret about... Continue Reading →
taking back childhood…
Childhood has changed. Endless hours of playing in dirt, working beside parents, and sitting down to a dinner with your family has been replaced by a mad rush to get to the next activity, run through drive-through for a bite to eat, and then sitting down to watch advertisement filled television. Interactions between parent and... Continue Reading →
without a united front…
I've often heard parents discussing the fact that, together with their spouse, they always present a united front to their children, whether or not they agree with their spouse. I admit this has always confounded me a bit. I want my children to be honest, both with themselves and with others, and to do what... Continue Reading →
financial responsibility…
In our family, everyone is expected to help out. We don't reward picking up or doing household chores with money. We help each other because that is what a family does. When something isn't working out, we talk about it and make any necessary changes. Separate from that, but along the same lines, is money.... Continue Reading →
don’t swear with your mouth full…
After reading my post concerning the disadvantages of time-out, Dr. Cary Chugh contacted me and asked if I would review his book, Don't Swear with Your Mouth Full! When the book arrived, my husband joked that I would have to write a good review, but by that time I had already read the back of the... Continue Reading →
whining…
Most parents have dealt with a whining child at some point. I generally handle whining pretty well. It's only when the whining turns to a "Moooommmmmmyyyyyy" multiple times that it really starts to grate on my nerves. Having my name whined will quickly begin to bother me. When that happens, I calmly explain to my... Continue Reading →
five qualities of self-directed children…
There are five main qualities that self-directed children possess: Self-directed children have a high level of self-worth or self-confidence. Because these children have been raised in an environment rich in unconditional love and approval, they are able to rationally assess themselves in a way which allows for self growth rather than tearing them down. This allows... Continue Reading →
cooperation: a two way street…
Cooperation is a two way street. If you aren't working with your children, they won't want to work with you. Cooperation is power with your kids.
being a successful consultant to our children…
Not only can we model behavior and actions for our children, as parents we can also share our ideas, knowledge, and experiences with them. The method we undergo to achieve this will affect how it is accepted by our children. Successful consultants: Share rather than preach Offer rather than impose Suggest rather than demand Effective consultants... Continue Reading →
my hope for a better life…
Welcome to the May Carnival of Natural Parenting: Role model This post was written for inclusion in the monthly Carnival of Natural Parenting hosted by Code Name: Mama and Hobo Mama. This month our participants have waxed poetic about how their parenting has inspired others, or how others have inspired them. Please read to the... Continue Reading →
living peacefully with children 