playing in the dirt…

We go to a lot of parks. I think it's important for children to have the opportunity to spend time outside playing. No matter what amenities various parks have, the natural amenities are the things which draw my children in. My kids love to play with sticks, acorns, and rocks and to dig in the... Continue Reading →

five qualities of self-directed children…

There are five main qualities that self-directed children possess: Self-directed children have a high level of self-worth or self-confidence. Because these children have been raised in an environment rich in unconditional love and approval, they are able to rationally assess themselves in a way which allows for self growth rather than tearing them down. This allows... Continue Reading →

developing responsibility…

Responsibility isn't something we can impose on our children. There isn't a formula on how to explain responsibility to them and suddenly have them be the compassionate, caring, committed individuals we hope they will be. Responsibility is something that has to grow from within the child. It finds direction in the values absorbed from the child's home and... Continue Reading →

encouraging lies…

Most parents don't want their children to lie, but sometimes they unknowingly encourage just that by their own behavior. In order to avoid this, we need to make certain that we don't set up situations which promote lying. Provoked lies are a type of defensive lie. No one wants to feel interrogated or trapped by someone... Continue Reading →

compliance in dangerous situations…

As parents, we would love to believe that the world is a safe place for our children to explore and learn. Generally, that is true. However, there are certain dangers out there - some which are merely things our children haven't encountered and learned about yet and some that are lurking in wait. Because of these things, there... Continue Reading →

snot sucker…

I am not a fan of nasal aspirators. My children have always hated them, but something has to be done when your little nursling is all stuffed up. We've always tried to be as gentle as possible, use saline solution (I recommend Little Noses due to the small kid size tip), and talk through the process.... Continue Reading →

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