As parents, we would love to believe that the world is a safe place for our children to explore and learn. Generally, that is true. However, there are certain dangers out there - some which are merely things our children haven't encountered and learned about yet and some that are lurking in wait. Because of these things, there... Continue Reading →
filling up with love…
Sometimes, when I am out of sorts with one of my children and we aren't connecting very well, I gather the child up in my arms and onto my lap. I might say in a funny voice, "I think you need filled up with love." Sometimes they argue a bit. Othertimes they just feel relief.... Continue Reading →
stagnant versus dynamic parenting…
I like to read books about topics which are pertinent to me. This includes parenting books - specifically non-coercive or consensual living books. I feel that I am a better parent when I am actively seeking growth - as a parent and as a person. When I read the books, I'm not looking for someone... Continue Reading →
today’s kids…
Gone are the days of silent children standing still in a line at school. They no longer blindy accept just any order from adults. They have opinions and a voice. I often hear parents, or grandparents, or the gentleman at the grocery store complaining that kids today aren't the same. Back in their day, kids... Continue Reading →
the illusion of control…
Adults utilize many different methods in order to control the behavior of children, whether through punishments or rewards, in an attempt to have what they deem are respectful and well-behaved kids. What I think many of them fail to realize is that one can only truly control one's own actions. We can never completely control another... Continue Reading →
take time to be silly…
Sometimes we, as parents, get caught up in the day to day grind. It's important to remember to take some time to be silly. It really changes everything and makes everyone feel better. This morning we pulled into a parking lot. As I was parking, there was a fun song on the radio that was... Continue Reading →
living peacefully with children 